A long, unread email is rarely a sign that the reader does not care about the topic, it is usually a sign that the writing itself demanded more time and effort than the reader had available in that particular moment to actually engage with it fully.
The Mismatch Between Writing Time and Reading Time
Writers often spend significant time crafting a message and expect the reader to invest similar effort reading it, but readers typically scan quickly, especially in a busy workday, which means a message written for careful reading often gets skimmed, misunderstood, or set aside entirely for later.
How Length Signals Effort Required
A long block of text signals to a reader, often correctly, that understanding it will require real time and focus, and busy readers frequently defer messages that look like they require that kind of investment, sometimes indefinitely, in favor of shorter messages that are quicker to process.
Writing for the Reader’s Actual Reading Style
Rather than writing the way you would want to explain something out loud, write for how people actually read on a screen: quickly, often distracted, and looking for the specific piece of information they need right now rather than working carefully through your entire train of thought.
Action Step
Look back at the last email you sent that did not get a timely response. Estimate how long it would take someone to skim it in ten seconds, and identify what they likely missed.
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